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How Do I Deal With a Phantom Attorney Not Calling Back?

Help, My Attorney Is Not Calling Back

Dear Susan,

My attorney never calls me back. It’s not like I call him all the time, but I do expect a callback, in a day or two, not a week later.  Is this common for attorneys to do?

Thanks for your help.

Dear Nina,

I get this question all the time and the answer is yes and no.  Some attorneys are very quick with return phone calls.  Others take a few days.  I think a week is pushing it.

My suggestion is to address this issue as quickly as possible.  Maybe set a weekly check-in day and time for conversation and updates.  Keep in mind that you will be charged for every minute you speak to your attorney as they earn money based on time – time spent on the phone with you, time spent responding to the other side’s (your spouse) counsel, time writing letters and filing motions in your behalf.  Knowing this, you should keep your phone time with your attorney at a minimum and only discuss matters that are urgent.

All that being said, find out what their communication method is and make a plan so that you may have your concerns addressed in a timely and cost efficient manner.
Susan Shofer Divorce Consultant


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As a divorce and custody ally, she helps women and men navigate the troubled waters of a family breakup by sharing her own organized and pragmatic approach to the divorce process.

Susan successfully crossed her own highly contentious divorce and post-divorce battle and was triumphant in her fight against Parental Alienation.
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