- How do I afford a divorce?
- I don’t have a job.
- What will happen to my children?
- Do I get alimony?
- I am afraid to be alone.
- I don’t know any attorneys.
- Do I have to file papers first?
- The courtroom scares me.
- Will anyone ever want a relationship with me after my divorce?
- How do I tell my family?
If you have one, several, or even all of these thoughts, know that you are not alone. Anyone considering divorce encounters these same concerns. A divorce is a life-changing event. It pivots you away from what you thought your life was to a new path of unknowns which is uncomfortable territory. Life is so much easier when we wake up every morning and feel certain about our future. Divorce presents an uncertain future.
However… What we believe is our life certainty is actually an illusion because life happens. Whatever that is — illness, accident, natural disaster, death. Divorce is another life event that takes us off of our intended trajectory.
Going through a divorce alone is similar to going to school without a teacher. We would never consider sending our children to school every day knowing that there was not a teacher at the helm of the classroom. However, when it comes to divorce we are willing to flounder our way through unknown territory.
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